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How to Dance with a Partner

Introducing Harmony Dancing

Learn the Safest, Easiest, Gentlest and Most Natural Way to Dance with a Partner

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How to Dance with a Partner

Learn the Only Method of Communicating Every Step in Every Social Dance Unambiguously

The Safest, Easiest, Gentlest and Most Natural Way to Dance with a Partner

The ABCDs of Leading and Following
Get Better Faster, Have More Fun, Feel More Comfortable, Confident and Popular

By Andrew Weitzen

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In trying to teach people how to dance with a partner, I started organizing the hundreds of pointers I had learned into categories. As I grouped the information together, I saw that you could communicate every step by following three simple laws and using just three signals. That is the reason for this book. I have to repeat, to make sure you understand.

You can unambiguously communicate every step in every dance by following three simple laws and using just three signals.

At first I did not appreciate what I had stumbled across. I thought the three laws only served as a useful guideline. However, after spending the last several years testing this system, I believe the three laws reflect a deep, fundamental truth about how two people move together. They provide the only logical explanation for how to unambiguously communicate with a partner.

The three laws work for every dance from Argentine tango to zydeco. This discovery simplifies dancing with a partner. You only need to learn to communicate once and your skills are transferable to every dance. I call this method of communicating Harmony Dancing. Harmony Dancing is so simple that the main rules fit on a single sheet of paper, which you can learn in an afternoon.

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Read the excerpt below from the forward of the book How to Dance with a Partner.


But First

From the book How to Dance with a Partner

What this Book Will Do for You

This book solves the biggest problem you and everyone has in social dancing since men and women started dancing together, which is how to communicate.

Harmony Dancing is the only unambiguous method of communicating every step in every social dance.

You learn the only clear definition of the rules for leading and following, which will transform your understanding of how to dance with a partner.

Thank you for so much Andy. You have opened my eyes in ways I never could have imagined. ~ Cheryl

Anyone can dance enjoyably with a partner, once you know how to communicate. This book shows you how to communicate, so you can make every dance a pleasure.

Communicate Every Step Following Three Laws and Three Signals

You can communicate every step in every social dance by following three simple laws and using just three signals.

Stop! Read that last sentence again.

Can that be true?

Yes.

By following the Three Laws and using the Three Signals of Harmony Dancing you can unambiguously communicate every step in every social dance.

This astounding discovery is the reason for this book.

Feel More Comfortable, Confident and Popular

When you understand the principles of how to communicate with a partner, you dance with confidence. You feel more comfortable. You feel more popular.

Will you have people lined up to dance with you again and again? When you apply the principles of safety, courtesy and comfort, I believe you will.

Dance Safely, Free From Injury and Stress

You learn how to dance safely. You learn how to dance with your partner, without doing anything to your partner. You learn how to communicate through body language, without the use of pressure and tension.

I have a shoulder injury. Even slight stress inflames the joint. With many people, my shoulder starts hurting almost immediately. With Harmony Dancing, I can dance all night without any strain.

Gentlest Method

Since there is no use of force, Harmony Dancing is the gentlest possible method of dancing with a partner. You learn to dance as light as a feather, which is a joy for you and your partner.

Greatest Freedom of Expression

Since you dance without tension and pressure, you have the maximum physical freedom of movement. This along with clearly defined rules, gives you the greatest freedom of expression. You can improvise as your partner inspires you and the music moves you, adding meaning to your dancing.

Dance Naturally

You learn how to dance in a way that is natural to the human body and how people naturally interact.

One woman dance teacher said to me, "I can never tell if I am following you or if I am leading myself."

You learn to dance so naturally, the woman does not feel she is being led. The woman simply follows the natural flow of her body, like dancing downhill.

Have Fun

Social dancing is about having fun. You have more fun in a welcoming atmosphere.

Harmony Dancing helps you enjoy your dance experiences more by addressing all aspects of the communication that goes on between dance partners. You learn to create a respectful, non-judgmental relationship between you and your dance partner, so no matter what your level, you can dance with people of every other level, and have a good time.

Works for Choreographed Dances Too

Harmony Dancing works for choreographed dances too. You learn how to do every choreographed dance whether you and your partner know the steps or not. You learn how to dance together, so you are not just doing choreography, but are two people dancing as one.

Universal Method for Communicating

You only need to learn to communicate once and you can use the same method in all your dancing.

We have tested Harmony Dancing on dozens of social dances and countless pieces of complex choreography. Here are some of the dances we tested: Argentine tango, ballroom, Cajun, cha cha, Country Western, East Coast swing, English country, folk, foxtrot, hustle, international, Israeli, Latin, lindy hop, mambo, Nordic, polka, round, rumba, salsa, samba, square, two-step, waltz, West Coast swing, Western style square, zydeco and many others. Harmony Dancing works for every dance that we know.

Works Even If Your Partner Does Not Know

You learn the fundamental principles for dancing with a partner. Even if your partner does not know Harmony Dancing, these principles work and your partner will appreciate them.

You have the gentlest lead. ~ Rene, vintage waltz dancer

Learn the Language for Dancing with a Partner

Harmony Dancing should be the first dance class you take so you can communicate clearly with your partner. You learn the Three Laws of Harmony Dancing that tell you:

  • How to move
  • Where to be
  • Where to go

You learn the Three Signals that let you communicate each move. You learn how to give and respond to subtle signals instantly.

Harmony Dancing is so accurate, you can communicate better when the follower is blindfolded, because she is not tempted to use external clues.

Get Powerful Insight into Your Dancing

You learn new ways of understanding your dancing that you can put to practical use. As you progress, Harmony Dancing helps you understand your dancing more deeply.

I am constantly amazed how Harmony Dancing continually reveals simpler, more precise insights on my dance teachers explanations.

Easy to Understand and Do

Harmony Dancing is so easy to understand that the main rules are summarized on a single page of paper, which you can learn in an afternoon.

Some local teachers disagreed with my advertisement that Argentine tango, although among the most sophisticated of dances, was also among the easiest. Yet, my beginners were dancing the first day. One of them, who was taking another class at the same time, said, "That was so much fun. I loved that we got to dance."

Be the Smartest Dancer in Your Group, Accelerate Your Progress with the ABCDs

Harmony Dancing is organized in a simple structure of ABCD, which helps you learn faster. While others are trying to assimilate hundreds of pointers, you see the whole picture in a way you can easily remember. You understand more of what your dance teachers tell you. You are better able to apply what you learn to take your dancing to a new level.

Get Better Each Time You Go Dancing

Harmony Dancing guides your progress, so you know you are practicing the correct skills in the right way.

"Practice does not make perfect. Practice makes permanence." I heard this from a wise dance teacher who warned, that you have to be careful you are practicing skills that make you better and are not reinforcing bad habits that make you worse.

You invest years into the dancing that you love. As long as you have made this commitment, give yourself every opportunity to improve. Be sure you are learning the skills that help your dancing flourish. Make sure you get better each time you go dancing.

Helps Dance Teachers

Harmony Dancing helps dance teachers by providing a simple, accurate explanation of how to communicate. The ABCDs make teaching easier by providing a consistent set of ideas across all dances, so all students communicate in the same way. Your students are better able to apply what you teach them.

Points to Remember

  1. This book solves the biggest problem people have in social dancing, which is how to communicate.
  2. Anyone can dance enjoyably with a partner, once you know how to communicate.
  3. You learn the only method of communicating every step in every social dance.
  4. You can communicate every step by following the Three Laws and using the Three Signals..
  5. You learn to dance safely, free from injury and stress.
  6. You feel more comfortable, confident and popular.
  7. You only need to learn to communicate once and can apply those principles in all your dancing.
  8. What you learn works for choreographed dances too.
  9. What you learn works even if your partner does not know it.
  10. You learn faster, understand more and accelerate your progress.
  11. Dance teachers learn a consistent, logical framework they can use to explain how to lead and follow across all dances.

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Be the Smartest Dancer in Your Group

Communicate Every Step in Every Social Dance Unambiguously

Learn the Only Clearly Defined Method of Leading and Following

Dance the Natural, Gentle, Easy Way

Dance Safely, Free from Injury and Stress

Feel More Comfortable, Confident and Popular

Accelerate Your Progress

Take Your Dancing to a New Level

Learn Harmony Dancing Today


Buy How to Dance with a Partner, Learn the Only  Method of Communicating Every Step in Every Social Dance Unambiguously, The Safest, Easiest, Gentlest and Most Natural Way to Dance with a Partner, book_title_sub3%, Get Better Faster, Have More Fun, Feel More Comfortable, Confident and Popular, for all partner dancing, including: Argetine tango, ballroom, cajun, contra, country western, east coast swing, English country, folk, hustle, international, Israeli, latin, lindy hop, polka, round, salsa, samba, square, waltz, west coast swing, zydeco

How to Dance with a Partner

Learn the Only Method of Communicating Every Step in Every Social Dance Unambiguously

The Safest, Easiest, Gentlest and Most Natural Way to Dance with a Partner

The ABCDs of Leading and Following
Get Better Faster, Have More Fun, Feel More Comfortable, Confident and Popular

By Andrew Weitzen

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